Giving a gift in Japan is more than handing over an object. It’s a way to show appreciation, attention, and a sense of connection. The thought behind the gift often matters more than its size or price. As we move toward the Christmas season, this spirit offers a refreshing contrast to hurried holiday shopping — and an inspiration for choosing gifts that hold meaning.
More Than a Present: The Role of “Okurimono”
In Japan, giving (okuru) is seen as a quiet gesture of care. Gifts are exchanged on many occasions: after a journey, when visiting someone’s home, or simply to say thank you. The focus is on choosing something that fits the other person’s life, not on creating a big moment.
This mindset often brings attention to everyday items: things made with care, useful in daily routines, and pleasant to touch or use. It’s less about novelty and more about intention.
The Art of Presentation
How a gift is presented is just as important. Wrapping traditions like furoshiki or noshi highlight respect and attention to detail. The wrapping is simple, not showy — it frames the gift and reflects consideration.
This idea works surprisingly well for Christmas too: a calm moment of wrapping, choosing natural materials, and presenting something that will stay with the recipient beyond the holidays.
What We Can Bring Into Our Christmas Traditions
Adapting Japanese gifting customs doesn’t mean copying them. Instead, it’s about shifting the focus:
– from quantity to thoughtfulness
– from seasonal pressure to quiet selection
– from trendy items to pieces made with care and meant to last
Small objects can carry big meaning when they’re chosen with a person in mind.
Gift Ideas That Carry This Spirit
At KENKAWAI, we work with makers in Japan whose products follow exactly this approach: calm, practical, and crafted with long-standing knowledge. A few examples that fit well into thoughtful holiday gifting:
Japanese incense from Awaji Island – a simple, calm gesture for anyone who appreciates quiet moments.
Kawara ceramic pieces – handmade by a fourth-generation ceramic artist; understated pieces that feel at home in everyday use.
Soft Japanese towels and tenugui – lightweight, quick-drying, and versatile. They work for travel, kitchens, bathrooms, and even as gentle wraps for babies.
These are gifts that bring a small piece of everyday Japan into someone’s life — useful, tactile, and made to be appreciated over time.
A Calmer Approach to Christmas Gifting
Taking inspiration from Japanese gifting doesn’t require big changes. It’s more a shift in perspective: choosing gifts that support small workshops, selecting items that are used often rather than once, and taking time to wrap them with care.
In a season that can feel rushed, this approach brings a sense of stillness — and makes giving feel more personal again.
